Stop.
Seriously, stop offering up the wise suggestions. Great as they are, it's not doing him any good and in fact, is making things worse. So if you really want to help him, STFU.
I was like you all once, doling out the good advice. I gave stupendous recommendations actually! The problem is, he doesn't take it. I'm not even sure he reads it.
By catering to his sadness we are enabling him. Like the drug addict who keeps being forgiven by his family, he complains and gets a wealth of responses which affords him the attention he desires. I think the best thing for Bling is to get the fuck off this message board and start living life. I think, cj might just mean a little too much to him. I think the best thing we can do is ignore him for a little while.
I am not doing this to be mean. Danny, I have your best interests at heart. I wish you wonderful things in life including love. It's just that you have not learned anything from the last 486296065 times, and I don't think repeating that pattern is going to do you any good. So in the interest of trying something new, I think we should take the attention away from your problems.
Tough love babe. I know it might hurt a bit, but believe me when I tell you I care very much for you.
/rant.